Perfect. Very comfortable and flexible, but sturdy. Looks nice as well, no cheap/tacky nylon straps. I’ve had no problems with the hip/thigh sizing, it’s fully adjustable. I also used a different brand of dildo for this harness, and it was a perfect fit but the metal loops and snaps still held it in place. So if you don’t have a ‘strap u’ dildo it should still work. Worth the price, I’m satisfied!