If you have many toys you know it’s a huge deal when it becomes her favourite. We used over 30 others but her favorite was a doc Johnson mid sized one for the past 10 years. The first time we used this one with a harness and within 30 seconds she had her first of many. She said “we’re done buying and trying, I only want this one”. She says the texture is perfect (close to real), the girth is filling but doesn’t hurt, it’s not so long that her cervix gets a beating, and it gets and stays warm better than anything we’ve tried. If I had to make a con it would be that it dries out fast (need tons of lube) and the base doesn’t suction. Trust me, these are tiny cons. This is the first toy we’ve had that she’s routinely asked for and she’s used on her own without my prompting. We even packed it on our family vacation!