This thing is awesome. If anal sex feels anything like this does I think I would be a huge slut. I’ve never bought a “sexual aid” before… now I wish I would have had one of these for years! Try putting this thing in and walking around the house and doing chores for awhile. It’s almost impossible to stop from getting an erection. Just buy this thing. You won’t regret it. No you are not gay if you put this thing in your butt. In fact, I would wager that having this thing in ya while having sex with your wife/girlfriend would be *awesome*.