I am hetero married male. When shopping for toys, I was always deterred by the higher cost of Aneros products… I mean why pay $40 for something when there is a $10 plug available. It’s not like you can return these things, so you want to know you’re not out a lot of money if it’s not what you’re looking for. Well, in short, you get what you pay for, and I should have sprung for this years ago.This is more of a medical device, where you will reap lifelong benefits from practice than a sex toy to get off with. To summarize the benefits I’ve recieved after a few weeks of use are; decrease in premature ejaculation, reduced problems with ‘shy bladder’ and when I pee I feel like I can fully empty, improved hemrriods, muscle tension reduction, stronger orgasm, larger erection, and more pleasurable sex.