To find a device that aids in the intimacy arena is always welcome. Personally, wanting the experience of being face to face as well as experiencing docking is now possible with this device. The feel is quite welcome and being deeply ridged on the outside helps with holding on to it when using water based lubes. An added feature is its being clear to see you and your partner making contact while feeling the added intimacy. Clean up was quite easy, but do NOT use the dishwasher, harsh chemical or anything with a lot of heat. As instructed, warm water and a lightweight soap keeps it supple, pliable and clear as the day first used. The type of material warms quickly and is just snug enough for comfortable connections or for a personal experience.