We love this dildo! My wife was able to take the girth easily when lube was used. Start slow and work your way into it. The shaft length is pretty long, but the Outlaw stands strong. The silicone material is outstanding with no smell or off-gassing. This is truly a toy that will last a sexual lifetime. After use, wash it with a toy cleaner and store it in some type of none-fiber bag. I guess our only complaint is that the packaging is pretty minimal, but who care, we don’t use the package. Don’t waste your money on other sex toys that smell bad just because they’re cheap. This is a high quality toy that is worth every cent!