I am so glad that I spent the extra money for a Vixskin dildo. First, let me say that this is by far the most realistic looking/feeling dildo I have ever used with my wife. The length and girth on the Bandit is quite large, but not an unrealistic large. The dimensions are in sync with the penis of a very well endowed man. It’s not cartoonish in the slightest. I have used it in a male harness on my wife and it has the perfect firmness for thrusting, yet is pliable just like a real penis would be. With just a small amount of water-based lube, the slight “stickiness” of silicone disappears and I swear it’s like having a real penis in your hands. The wife loves it.