Wife and I have used similar products in the past with mixed results. I bought this one after first purchasing a black one here. She liked the way the veins on the shaft felt and the added girth. She hated the color, though. Now that we have the Vanilla flavored model, she wants it all the time! Lots of fun to make love to her knowing the extra size and added texture of Colossus will put her over the top several times, every time! This product will definitely add to your love life if you use it responsibly the first couple times. Go slowly and use lots of lube until she gets warmed up. I love this product!!