I bought this butterfly kiss as a replacement for my last one which fell apart a bit too easily. I love the way it works and the soft hum it makes when it’s on. It’s not super loud. My two complaints are simply that it’s too fragile and a little too flimsy. The head isn’t quite firm enough to hit the spot the way I like it and the butterfly wings and antenna are much too flimsy and came off within a month. That being said, I liked the vibrations in the head of it the best and manipulated the toy to suit my needs, so the missing antenna and wings weren’t a huge issue with me. I LOVE that it’s waterproof-many fun times in the dorm shower while my roommate was in the room. I especially love using it for DV and DP with my bf. It makes me tighten up so much more!