My wife was a little apprehensive when i showed this to her, as our other one (her first vibrator) does not look like a penis. But let me tell you, after I worked her over with this guy, her legs didn’t stop shaking for an hour! Really the best dildo for the price. Its size is not too big, so don’t let other reviewers scare you. It’s about 1.5 inches in diameter. It’s about 9 inches in length, but its not like you have to shove the whole thing in there!